Erectile Dysfunction In Young Men
Erectile dysfunction in young men–or often referred to as impotence–is a disorder commonly seen in young men as early as their 20′s and is also referred to as ‘ED’. Most men dread the condition, infrequently talk about it and seldom consult a doctor. Erectile dysfunction is also referred to as male impotency. It is a condition where the man is not able to attain an erection to have intercourse or is unable to sustain an erection till the time he finishes coition. In the relaxed condition the penis is a soft flaccid organ and contains sponge like bodies within it. When a man is aroused blood rushes into the penis and it becomes taut and erect which enables successful penetration into the vagina.
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Due to the complexity of this issue and the lengthiness of this page, we have broken the page down into a table of contents which hopefully makes it easier to read and jump to the parts that interest you most.
Table of Contents
- 2. Causes of Impotence in Young Males
- 2.1 Stress Related
- 2.2 Physical Causes of ED
- 2.3 Sitting For Prolonged Periods of Time
- 2.4 Psychological Causes of Erectile Dysfunction in Young Males Under 45
- 2.5 Medications, Alcohol, and Nicotine
- 3. Treatment Options
- 3.1 Seeing a Doctor
- 3.2 Psychological Treatment
- 3.3 Diet, Exercise and Lifestyle Changes
- 3.4 Prescription Medication Options
- 3.5 Injectables, Penile Implants, and Penis Pumps
1. Impotence Symptoms
If you suffer from inability to attain a satisfactory erection to complete the act of sexual coition you may be suffering from ED. However, it is important to remember that if you suffer from few such episodes you might not necessarily be suffering from ED, as these episodes may be caused due to stress or ill health etc. Suffering from such episodes on a regular basis increases the likelihood that you may be suffering from Erectile Dysfunction. You may have trouble in attaining an erection or difficulty in sustaining an erection or may complain of reduced sexual desire. This inadvertently leads to a low sexual drive, and often times can cause perfectly good relationships to fall apart…primarily because a woman will begin to think the underlying root cause of the impotence is because of her. 7 out of 10 women end up leaving their partner because of this reason.
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2. Causes of Impotence in Young Males
Sexual arousal can be aided either by visual stimulation, sexual thoughts, or physical touch or feelings. Following sexual stimulation, signals are sent to your brain and from the brain impulses travel through the nerves to the penis. The nerves in the penis send a signal to the penile blood vessels to dilate and engorge with blood. This causes the soft spongy tissue to grow in size and become taut. This in turn causes an erection. Male hormones, emotions, brain, nerves and muscles of the penis are all involved in the complex process of penile erection. Thus disorders in any of these can cause ED.
2.1 Stress Related
Young men working under high levels of stress, leading sedentary lifestyles, are more prone to suffer from Erectile Dysfunction. Lack of physical activity, obesity, stressful lifestyles all play an important role in causing or worsening the incidence of ED and this explains why erectile dysfunction is affecting younger males increasingly. Nowadays many young men suffer from erectile dysfunction and fail to attain a sufficient erection or fail to maintain it for a desired period of time. This makes them unable achieve vaginal penetration and leads to decreased or lost sexual performance. There are several causes for erectile dysfunction in young men. And any problem in brain, nerves, general health, to local penile problems can be a cause of sexual impotence. Hence it becomes extremely important for the doctor to find out the exact cause of ED. In many cases ED is just a subtle symptom or an early reminder of some serious underlying health problem.
2.2 Physical Causes of ED
An increasingly number of young men nowadays are suffering from early stages of atherosclerosis, diabetes which may be juvenile or type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, obesity, dyslipidaemias- abnormal blood lipid levels, metabolic syndrome – it is a disease complex comprising of obesity, high blood pressure, high cholesterol levels and high levels of insulin and insulin resistance. Excessive use of alcohol, tobacco, and smoking are causes of Erectile dysfunction in the young. Certain medications may be responsible for ED. Peyronie’s disease – is a condition in which the spongy tissues of the penis develop scar tissue due to various causes leading to a deformity in the shape of the penis. Other causes of ED are hypogonadism, low testosterone levels, drug abuse, injuries to the spinal cord or pelvic region, multiple sclerosis.
The organic causes known to cause erectile dysfunction in young men are cardiovascular disorders, diabetes either juvenile or type 2, side effects of certain drugs, and inadequate hormones like in hypogonadism, neurological problems or severe trauma.
2.3 Sitting For Prolonged Periods of Time
If you are used to long hours of bicycling, you might be at an added risk of ED. Cycling for a long time can compress the arteries and nerves supplying the penis and cause damage. However after discontinuing cycling you may be able to tide over ED provided the damage done is temporary. Additionally, if you work in an office setting and are restricted to sitting in a chair at a desk all day, this can prove to be detrimental to your health in a myriad of ways. As noted above, prolonged periods of sitting can lead to compression of the arteries and nerves below the waist. Ensure that you get out of that desk every hour and stretch…get your blood circulating.
2.4 Psychological Causes of Erectile Dysfunction in Young Males Under 45
Another important cause of erectile dysfunction in young men is Psychological impotence. It means that some are unable to achieve or maintain an adequate erection due to psychological reasons. This means that they may not necessarily be having physical problems leading to impotence.
Such people may be suffering from a low self esteem which makes them very conscious about their own bodies, which in turn leads to doubts about whether or not they may be able to perform sexually. Some young men having Erectile dysfunction may be suffering from anxiety neurosis or depressive episodes which also alter their ability to perform sexually. Feeling of guilt or remorse regarding some disagreeable memory also may be a reason why many men are not able to attain or maintain an erection. Most men put themselves into a guilt trip and are unable to get out of their constant tormenting thoughts.
Young people suffering from psychological disorders like depression, anxiety neurosis are more prone to suffer from erectile dysfunction.In some cases it has been observed that if a man is unable to satisfy his partner or has problems in the initial few instances of intercourse, it greatly affects his self confidence and he makes a self formed impression about himself that all future attempts of a normal sexual intercourse will be futile. This mindset affects him psychologically and he indeed may not be able to perform satisfactorily in the future.
Impotence is commonly seen in men above the age of 75 years, however in recent years it seems to be affecting young men as well. However it is not necessary that as you grow old you are bound to suffer from ED. Older men may take more time to achieve an erection and might require considerable amounts of penile stroking or touching. But they too can successfully achieve and sustain an erection and thus maintain a healthy sexual life.
2.5 Medications, Alcohol, and Nicotine
Medications used to treat depression – antidepressant medications, antihistamines used for treating allergic conditions and those used to treat hypertension can be an important cause of Impotence in younger males as well as older men. High blood lipid levels lead to deposition of cholesterol plaques in the blood vessels of various organs. Deposition of cholesterol plaques in the penile arteries can cause a decrease in the lumen of the blood vessel, which decreases the blood supply and hampers the engorgement of the penis. Over use of tobacco in the form of smoking or tobacco chewing is known to narrow the blood vessels and decrease the amount of blood flow to various organs. Short-term alcohol usage can interfere with an erection while under the influence. Long-term alcohol usage has a significant negative impact on successful erections.
3. Treatment Options
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The most important treatment is treatment of the underlying cause of your Erectile dysfunction. Once the cause is treated then you might be able to achieve a normal erection without any other specific treatment for ED. If you are suffering from Diabetes and high blood pressure, take regular treatment for the same and keep it under control. Most young men shy away from visiting their doctor and prefer self medication. This is not advisable, as you might be suffering from some other serious disorder which may have presented as ED. Hence it is important that you do not neglect this condition and instead get some help before it is too late.
3.1 Seeing a Doctor
Your doctor will ask you a detailed medical history about your complaints, other relevant medical history etc and then do a physical examination. If he suspects any other chronic health problem then you may need to undergo further tests. You may require undergoing certain blood tests to check for your blood sugars, blood lipid levels, and hormonal levels. There is something called as an overnight erection test which means most men have erections during their sleep without realizing. This test helps rule out any physical or organic problem for Erectile Dysfunction and proves a psychological than physical element. You may also require doing an Ultrasound of your penis to check the blood flow.
3.2 Psychological Treatment
If you are having a tumultuous relationship with your partner, seek to sort it out first. You cannot expect to have healthy sexual life if you are not happy with your partner. You and your partner may even visit a psychological counselor and work together to smooth things out. In case you lead a very stressful lifestyle, relax!! Stress is an important factor that may lead to Impotence among younger males. Try to take a break or go out on a romantic holiday with your partner. This will help you relax and definitely help you change things for the better as far as your sexual life is concerned. Discuss sexual issues openly with your partner. It is necessary that you have a healthy communication with your partner and you both are comfortable with each other. If you are suffering from depressive episodes or anxiety neurosis, you must see a psychologist. You must keep yourself mentally healthy in order that you have a healthy sexual life.
3.3 Diet, Exercise and Lifestyle Changes
You will have to make changes in your diet and lifestyle. Firstly you must exercise regularly and aim at losing excess weight. Maintain a healthy lifestyle and eat healthy meals at regular intervals. Include plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables in your diet, these provide your body with a lot of antioxidants. If you consume tobacco in any form, stop immediately. Tobacco is known to have a vaso-constrictive effect on blood vessels which directly affects the amount of blood flowing through your penis. Also avoid consuming excess alcohol. Changes in diet and regimen itself help to treat erectile dysfunction in young men in most cases. You may practice pelvic floor exercises which helps you strengthen your muscles and helps the relieve ED.
3.4 Prescription Medication Options
There are certain oral medications that your doctor might prescribe for you. Medications like Sildenafil, Tadalafil, Vardenafil are drugs which increase the amount of blood flow into the penis. This makes it easier for one to get an erection following sexual stimulation. They have certain side effects and your doctor will be able to judge best whether or not these medications are suitable to you or not. You may not be advised to take these medications if you are suffering from heart disease or heart failure, if you have had a stroke, you are taking medications for high blood pressure, treatment for angina like Nitroglycerin, isosorbide mononitrate or isosorbide dinitrate, or if you are taking anticoagulant medications or are suffering from uncontrolled diabetes or hypertension or hypotension. It’s recommended to stay away from prescription medications as much as possible, unless your doctor says otherwise. In severe cases, medication such as this should be the last resort. These medications only cover up the underlying cause temporarily. Finding a natural solution that fixes the underlying cause is the best route to take. In addition, if you have low levels of Testosterone you may be put on testosterone replacement therapy.
3.5 Injectables, Penile Implants, and Penis Pumps
You may be advised injectables in case you cannot tolerate oral medications. Alprostadil is useful when injected into the base or the side of your penis. It will enable you to have an erection in five to twenty minutes and the erection could last for almost an hour.
Alprostadil can also be given as a suppository which is to be inserted into your penis. You are provided with a device which will help you insert the suppository almost 2 inches into your urethra. However you may develop side effects following this method like fibrosis or bleeding into the urethra. It is an effective method but not completely safe and free of side effects.
If your doctor does not think oral medications or the injectables are safe for you, there are other methods which you can use. Penile implants are available nowadays which may be surgically placed into the two sides of your penis. These implants are made from silicone or polyurethane and are inflatable, thus allowing you to have an erection whenever desired and you can also control the duration of your erection. Inflation and deflation of the implants are within your control through a device.
Penis pumps are vacuum constriction devices. It consists of a tube which you can place over your penis. The tube helps to create a vacuum and helps pull blood into your penis. When the blood flow into your penile blood vessels increases, the spongy tissues within your penis get engorged. This helps you have an erection, after which you can remove the device. The erection will last for almost 30 minutes.
However, it is highly likely that you are suffering from psychological impotence if you’re under 45 years of age.
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29 Comments
Jul 20, 2012 6:25 pm |
I am 33 and have been with a 56 year old man for 4 years (we are not married)
recently he can’t keep an erecion. Is he not attracted to me anymore?? I know I don’t look the
same because of stress. He tells me I am beautiful but I can’t buy this. What can I do?
Jun 19, 2012 3:25 am |
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Apr 14, 2012 7:02 am |
so, my boyfriend, isn’t 18 yet, and I have noticed for the past month or so he hasn’t been able to maintain an erection.
We have been together for 3 years, we are engaged, and we used to go for hours! and he would go 3-6 times.
Now we will go for a few minutes till he ejaculates once, he would go soft then he could get it back again, but would not be able to maintain an erection for a second ejaculation. So max sex time is like 10 minutes.
Is this normal with boys his age? Is it my fault? Could it be because he doesn’t trust me? I cheated on him ONCE but didn’t even have sex with the person, could that really be putting him off?
Mar 28, 2012 2:24 pm |
my guy had no problem with having an erection but the thing get soft after less than five minutes.of late i decided to avoid him coz i think am the cause.we have never talked about his condition n am afraid to ask him about it so as not to injure his ego
Mar 22, 2012 6:44 am |
Hi all, I am 19 and I had sex with around 5/6 women in my life and until this one girl I had no issues with erections whatsoever. I was really good in bed and my partners would tell me I was one of the best, if not the best they had. I used to have a lot of sex and would ejaculate 3-5 times and had no issues in getting an erection. Once, I slept with two girls in one night and everything went well. The next day, I woke up and started going at it with this girl (the first time I had sex with her was the night before) and during foreplay she stuck her hand in my underwear and I had a partial erection and that made her really uneasy. She looked demotivated and stopped what she was doing, I got a little uneasy and told her to wait and it would get hard, as usual. We talked for a bit and tried to talk it over and we decided to try again. During foreplay and everything, I would get hard but as soon as she was lying, with her legs open, my penis would be partially hard and wouldn’t get rock hard and this made her more uneasy then before. She then left and we actually fought about this, I was trying to blame her for it as it had never happened before and she got very mad about it. I had opportunities to have sex with this girl in other occasions but I wasn’t really attracted anymore and I would get very nervous when we were close to having sex or anything, I would pull myself back and just abdicate from the physical contact. I had sex with one girl after this incident, but during foreplay and kissing, I was constantly worrying about my erection and kept thinking “Get hard, get hard, get hard.” After a long time of foreplay in bed and having a few erections, the girl decided to have sex and I managed to get an erection and rushed to insert my penis as fast as I could so it wouldn’t go away, I actually ejaculated REALLY fast, a lot faster than usual. I don’t have low self-esteem and I am a very confident man, I used to even be a little cocky about my sexual potency, but after this incident with this girl I just became demotivated and unsure about my potency. Every time i’m going at it with a girl now, I keep thinking about getting an erection and if I don’t have a full erection and my partner is approaching my penis, I get somewhat nervous and pull back.
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Mar 11, 2012 11:16 pm |
Yep i’m exactly the same as Kasim Ahmed!! It’s so annoying!!
I’ve been on Amino Acids, Zinc & Magnesium for ages and it does nothing. Calling the doctors tomorrow to see what they can give to me!!
Just had another embarrassing moment…. Hated it.
Mar 6, 2012 6:21 pm |
Hi I’m 23 and just started having erectin problems I’m not sexually active but for 3 months now I’ve lost most morning erections and dunt get spontaneous ones…… When I’m with a girl I used to get erections but dunt get those either anymore …any suggestions?
Feb 13, 2012 11:38 pm |
hi people,a few years back i started loosing my powers in bed,loosing my women,wtf?i couldnt get a proper erection.i downloaded the Eiffer Power Program when i heard it did miracles…it actually does.its been my best friend ever,in bed im much better with erections and my girlfriend is happy.so im 30 and i feel 20 ,before that i was angry and thought im the worst sex partner ever,masturbation?couldnt lift the damn thing!
Feb 13, 2012 9:48 pm |
Hey. I’m Jess.
So I’ve been with this guy about a year now and its been great.
But every once in a while we’ll be getting down and he goes soft. It happened within our first like six months of dating and of course I was terrified but we made it work, weather it was trying New things or maybe a change in diet, I’m not sure. But! These last few nights we’ve both wanted to just have at each other and we’ve both felt disappointment. I mean I love sex as much as he does and I can tell he gets frustrated, so I try and comfort him as best I can but I know hes uneasy. I was thinking maybe he could get some natural like vitamin or something, but I’m not sure what to tell him. But I know I’m here for sure through whatever it is.
Any suggestions?
Feb 14, 2012 4:35 pm |
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Feb 1, 2012 5:43 pm |
Same here pal.when my wife is asleep.i watch porn at first to heat things up.when i erected,as i put on her.its softens and failed.most often i watch porn ehile pumping her.it helped!but the passed days,it softens even with the aid of watching porn.now whats happening????
Feb 1, 2012 6:23 am |
I am 18.So its kinda weird. But i get erect pretty much whenever i think about my girlfriend but whenever we are making out and doing something really stimulating, my penis is very soft and doesnt get hard. Eventually though it gets hard, but its funny that i am engaged with her in such an intimate way, it takes waaay too much time for me to get erect. in I mean i know its not a physical thing. I mean i have not been with a lot of girls before and I am really conscious about my body and sometimes i dont relax enough. Do you think that could be the problem?
Jan 30, 2012 2:36 pm |
I’m 19 years old and this is the scariest thing that has ever happened to me. It’s as if I can’t focus. I use to wake up With an erection but as soon as I’d get out of bed it would be gone. When I try to masterbate it takes me forever just to get an erection and when I finally get it it takes an even longer time to ejactulate. I am a smoker but I also exercise daily and i have no health problems. I guess it’s because I have no stress at all and nothing seems to get me mad or affect me in anyway and I think that might be the problem since is is vein so relaxed a problem? This is really freaking me out. I want to see a doctor but I don’t know if I should go to a psychologist or a doctor and furthermore I don’t know who to go to and where. And I was with my girlfriend the other day and I had an erection the whole time but as soon as she paused to get undressed I lost it completely. I’m way to young for this.
Jan 31, 2012 1:11 pm |
I know exactly how you feel cuz I was having the SAME exact problem, only I’m 22 years old. I thought, “this can’t be happening to me…I’m too young”, but it was. I would watch my girlfriend get undressed and for a moment, I would get hard, but when we started to get into it, I would go soft.
I was very skeptical at first about downloading that Eiffer Power Program on here, but after I did, I followed the directions and…the weird thing is, i no longer have problems getting hard. at least not like I used to. Been doing as the report suggest for 4 weeks now, and only once have I had an erection issue.
I’m getting there though!
Jan 29, 2012 7:30 pm |
Hi my name is Corey I am a 19 year old male I think I have ED because it doesn’t matter what I do I don’t get a full erection anymore and if I do as soon as I go to put the condom on it goes soft and I can’t get it back I don’t have erections in the morning and its happened ever since I could remember I don’t understand and I’m trying to figure out what’s going on and how I can fix it.
Jan 29, 2012 3:47 am |
My hubby had an affair and ever since he came back with me he has had some issues. Sometimes we do it and he performs, other like three times it has happened he goes hard and while having sex he goes soft or he has pain or he says is his overweight or who knows but for me is getting annoyed.
Jan 27, 2012 2:50 am |
so my boyfriend is 20 years old and i think has this problem too. Like sometimes we will be having sex and its completely fine no problems at all but sometimes we will start getting in the motions into having sex and start fooling around and we will start having sex and like 15 20 seconds into having sex he goes soft. its starting to get frustrating for me because i don’t know what is wrong. he has no problem getting hard, and he doesn’t ejaculate fast and sometimes our sex is completely normal but then sometimes more than often he will go soft. and he gets so frustrated but he wont talk to someone about it to see whats wrong because hes embarrassed it.
Is this normal what happens to him or is there something serious wrong?
Is there any help?
Jan 28, 2012 3:58 am |
Hey Emily,
It doesn’t sound like your boyfriend has any physical issues that would leave us to believe that he has medical problems associated with his ED. Because his penis does in fact get hard, yet during foreplay goes limp, is an indication that he has a mental block going on that is keeping him from getting rock hard erections. it’s completely normal in younger men, and the positive thing about it, is that it can be fixed relatively easy. There is a product, however, that can help him get back on track, we mention it on the site. It’s not pills or some crazy device that helps temporarily. Their product helps to find the underlying psychological problems that he is facing. Try it out, you both will be glad you did.
Jan 21, 2012 1:14 am |
I’m having this problem too. I had a vasectomy in September and was able to get and maintain erections for sex and masturbation. I have had problems with ED sporadically over the last year, but it was a stressful year so I attributed it to that. The last few months have been stress free and now I’m having this problem for the last two weeks. My wife thinks it’s her, which obviously isn’t helping anyone. I went to try acupuncture and had needs put around the base of my penis then hooked up to an electrical current. I got semi hard while that was happening, but when I try to have sex nothing happens.
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Jan 24, 2012 3:34 am |
Hey John. I’d recommend going back to your doctor to rule out anything physical due to your vasectomy.
Jan 20, 2012 7:18 pm |
I’m having this exact same problem and I’ve never had to deal with this before. I’m a 27 year old Operations Manager in construction and I deal with a lot of stress on a daily basis. Also I’ve recently had an injury that resulted in a pinched sciatic nerve which I thought may be the cause of this dysfunction. I dont know what it is but its really stressing me out and my fiance is starting to think its her
but it has nothing to do with physical appearance or beauty because my fiance is absolutely beautiful and I truly have never loved someone this much. I have no problem getting erect while masturbating, having sexual thoughts about her, massaging her and even thinking about how sexy she is will give me an erection but when it comes down to it and we are in the heat of the moment or she surprises me and tries to spice things up I feel like my nerves kick in and I go soft and once I actually get semi erect again and enter in to her I ejaculate so quick because my nerves feel like they are going crazy, almost like the feeling of having sex for the first time. Its so frustrating because I always want to make love to her and I think about her and making love to her about 100 times a day but when this happens it completely kills the mood and I feel so bad and sooo embarrased. This has happened 3 times now and its starting to scare the hell out of me. I’ve read all the above information on this site and some of it makes sense, such as the mental and psychological information. The first time it happened I had a lot on my mind and we had been in a small fight recently and my emotions were tangled up. Long story short, she nearly ripped my clothes off and jumped on the counter, she was ready for me and I couldnt get hard 
I wanted to cry because this rarely happens and I know she was trying to spice things up for a change and then once I had already killed the mood and my nerves calmed down I layed down next to her in bed and became hard as a rock and tried to come back on to her but she refused because she was upset. The second time was the same thing, we were cooking and she came running up naked and took my pants off, I was hard right as she did that but when she pulled me to the living room to make love I went soft and was so upset because I completely ruined it again and I know it hurts her and leaves her restless with thoughts of why I’m not getting hard for her but its killing me inside too because I dont know whats going on? Once again I became hard once my nerves calmed down. I need help in understanding this, I almost feel like its a mental and psychological thing im going through because of some of the things we have gone through such as past arguments and insidents that still float around in my mind, me not feeling like I satisfy her anymore because of her comments toward my penis size, her making me feel like sex is a chore for her with no passion or kissing or foreplay and she only wants to lay down in one position and let me do the work. I feel like I need the passion and that tingly feeling of testosterone flowing in the heat of the moment. I also feel its because we dont make love as often as we use to but really I dont even think its considered making love anymore, its just like “get on, put it in and hurry up” sometimes it feels like forever between love making and it mentally messes with my head because I’m so horny all the time, I find my self thinking “why does the woman I love and adore not want to get intimate and passionate more often with me?” We have even talked about these things and thats why she tries to spice things up but I feel that its been wrong for so long that I’m psychologically messed up and need some fixing. As for my size I’m only average 5-1/2″ long and decent girth, obviously I’m not massive in size but Ive never had problems with it in the past. I find my self thinking a lot about surgical enhancement to satisfy her and boost my self confidence but she doesnt agree with that choice. I’m desperate for answeres and I dont have insurance at the moment but I’m really starting to think that its purely Psychological. I just want to be back to my normal self and fix this.
Jan 24, 2012 3:38 am |
KC,
Sorry to hear about your situation. It truly does sound as if the majority of your problems are psychological in nature. The great thing about psychological impotence, is that once you can control it, it becomes less of an issue. Keep reading up on the site and if you want, we recommend a program that can help you eliminate psychological ED. Hope things get back to normal for you.
Jan 18, 2012 3:38 pm |
Hi, Im 25 year old male, i got erectile dysfunction problem and vains around my pennies are swollen and even while masturbating i dont get full erection and many time its delay ejaculation. Just to inform you i masturbate every alternate day and i dont get any night falls. I use to smoke but from past 3 months i stopped and my body is average. Please advise
Jan 18, 2012 3:47 pm |
One more thing i want to mention is i also have problem of semen leakage after passing urine.
Jan 17, 2012 8:49 pm |
Hey I have been having this problem for the past year! I never thought this would ever happen to me and its kinda freaking me out. This did not happen with my last girlfriend but with the one i am currently with it happens almost all the time. When i cant get it up i really do not feel like having sex ever again b/c it is embarrassing but i can get in the mood and get erect and then i go and put the condom on and go soft! I try to get it erect again but it will not stay erect for that long. Im thinking its all in my head but i rarely get an erection in the morning anymore and i know that could be a problem. I can get an erection during the day for a long time but as soon as i get a condom it goes soft. Im able to have sex sometimes with no problems at all but most of the time i have an issue. The issue is kinda stressing me out and i try to calm down but it does not work. I have no clue what to do for my issue!
Jan 22, 2012 9:22 pm |
I have exact same issue… Was dating a girl long distance for a year, and would do it 4 times a day every trip I would visit her on. Then one night, I had a negative memory pop into my head and it went soft. This created a snowball effect and now its completely mental I am sure of it. Definitely takes the desire down for me. Not sure what to do, really don’t want to see a psychologist about it.
Jan 24, 2012 3:32 am |
Hey Jim. Yeah, psychological impotence is a real bummer. The great thing about it though, is it can be easily controlled. We recommend a program (no pills) on our site that can help greatly with psychological impotence, as well as meditating.
Jan 14, 2012 11:14 am |
Hi just read the info above and I still can’t understand my problem, as I am able to have a full grown erection in the morning and whilst mastrubating, but completely unable to get one whilst having sex. I have used viagra tablets which do enable me to get fully erect but I hate relying on them as they have side effects! I also pre ejaculate is that normal?
Jan 16, 2012 3:39 am |
Hi Kasim. While we are not doctors, it does sound like the culprit is psychological. The fact that you can get erections in the morning and when masturbating–yet not be able to get one during sex is a clear indication of psychological symptoms related to erectile dysfunction. Pre ejaculation is normal. I would suggest reading up on mediation and perhaps try yoga.
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